Do's and Don't's to Balancing Multiple Job Offers

You've been on a dozen interviews and you're waiting to hear that you've landed that one particular dream job. Meanwhile, you get a call from one of the other hiring managers, and he makes you a job offer. Before making a decision you may regret, consider these do's and don'ts of handling multiple job offers.

Do: Ask for Time to Consider the Offer

When you're holding out hope for another job offer, buy yourself some time. Ask the recruiter for a week to review the job description, think over the decision or discuss it with your spouse. Stalling for a few days gives you time to hear from your dream job.

Don't: Feel Pressured to Accept the First Offer

If the hiring manager doesn't allow you time to think over your decision or tries to talk you into signing immediately, it's OK to turn down the job offer. Listen to your gut. You don't want to regret your decision and get stuck in a job you were pressured into taking.

Do: Try to Negotiate a Better Deal

If you're offered a position that's a close second to your dream job, ask for a few extra perks to sweeten the pot. Negotiate with the recruiter to land yourself a bigger office or a few extra vacation days. Ask about a free parking spot or stock options. Upping the ante might make this position look just as desirable as your dream job.

Don't: Dodge Phone Calls

Answer the phone when the recruiter calls, and respond to any emails he sends. Avoiding his calls and leaving correspondence go unanswered may be your tactic for buying extra time, but it makes the hiring manager think you're uninterested in the position and makes you look unprofessional.

Do: Be Honest About the Situation

If you can't buy yourself any more time or you aren't comfortable stalling for a week, open up to the recruiter about your dilemma. This may lead the hiring manager to begin negotiations to try to sway you to his organization, or he may offer you some time to think about it. Lying or making up excuses only makes the situation uncomfortable if you do have to turn the job offer down at a later time.

Don't: Renege on an Offer You've Accepted

It's best to avoid reneging on a job offer you've already accepted. This type of behavior can cause you to burn bridges or ruin your reputation in the industry, hurting possible job prospects in the future.

Entertaining multiple job offers may sound like a delightful predicament to be in, but it can lead to stress and doubt. Follow these do's and don'ts to make sure you handle the situation with grace, and avoid making a decision you may later regret.

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