How to Overcome the Frustration of Job Search

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There’s nothing more frustrating than being in the midst of a challenging job search. When you first leave a job and begin your new search, it always feels that the process will flow smoothly and that in a few short weeks you will have a new job. But more often than not--the search can take months to complete.

So how can you overcome the frustration of a challenging job search? There are a few things you can do to make sure the process begins to flow smoother. Here are a few ideas to consider.

Utilize Your References
The first place to turn to help you get out of a job search slump is your list of references. If you have several former co-workers or other friends who now have connections with new companies, it’s good to begin asking them for help.

The good news is that even if you don’t have a friend who works for a company you’re now interested in, the friend could know someone who does. However, if you don’t begin asking questions, you’ll never know who or what the people within your professional network know, so give it a try.

Make Your Resume "Pop"
Your resume needs to be an attention-getter in order to make sure that hiring managers will actually spot it among the many resumes that come into the company. There are a few ways to get this done.

One way is to create an eye-catching heading that will draw in recruiters and hiring managers if they run across your resume on the Internet. Also, you could make sure to add a career summary to the top of your resume underneath your personal information and objective.

The career summary pulls together some of the skills and accomplishments you’d like to highlight into a bullet point list that helps the hiring manager know what it is that you are bringing to the table. If you create one that tells your story well enough, the person reading it may feel encouraged to read the rest of your resume thoroughly.

Change Your Attitude
Probably one of the biggest factors in overcoming the frustration of a job search is changing your attitude about the entire process. Sometimes it can be easy to feel that you’d rather give up on a job search than press forward, but if you want successfully get your next job opportunity it’s best to decide what attitude you’re going to take about your job search then take it.

If you feel that things won’t go well, this may be reflected in the quality of your resume and/or cover letter. So rather than sulking about what hasn’t worked to date, it’s a good idea to instead think about all that has worked and what you hope will come of it in the long haul.

While the job search can be challenging, it doesn’t have to be frustrating. By making a few simple changes to the way you utilize your network, write your resume and how you view the entire process, you will find sooner than later that you will get the job of you’re looking for.

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  • Cookie
    Cookie
    I had to resign from my permanent job last year as my mother had died overseas, I didn't have any annual leave and my boss wouldn't approve leave in advance. When I returned I found a temporary role within 2 weeks, but it ended at xmas time.  After that I spent 5.5 months job hunting every day and like many of you became fed up and frustrated.  Then I landed another contract - 3 months later there was a restructure........and I am job hunting again.  Like many of you, I did not receive any acknowledgement and wondered what could be wrong.  I know I have the skills and experience.......then I came across an article online which advised that it could be your resume letting you down.  It proceeded to give information on how to revamp your resume and a linkto a software package.  I decieded to give it a go.......and now I am receiving phone calls for interviews.  So things are definitely looking up.  For those of you interested in revamping your resume checkout a product called iResume.  iResume looks inside the minds and motivations of recruiters, and shows users how to give hiring managers what they're looking for in a job application......it works.
  • Justin Gladden
    Justin Gladden
    I agree with those that are fed up.  After the newspapers in my area decided not to do good journalism, and lay off many workers, my industry has been flooded with gray haired know-nothings that don't want to retire and let the young cats have at it.I've applied for every multimedia, journalism, video production, photography job on even the most obscure job boards.  I've asked family, friends, former co-workers (the old ones that found or still have jobs, not the young ones), and even former city and government agencies that I've freelanced for and have yielded nothing.I have actually been lied to by a local museum that they weren't doing any age discrimination.  The only way I stay positive is to STOP LOOKING, thank God for my wife who still has a well paying job, and pray that the bills stay right where they are.
  • Linda
    Linda
    Yes, it is hard to keep a positive attitude, but what is the alternative?  If you don't keep trying you will get nothing.  My previous employer has laid off many people.  After 4 months I do not have a job.  However a co-worker laid off same time as I was does and another co-worker laid off 1 month ago already has a job.  How did that happen, who knows but if you give up you will never get a job.  No one is going to knock on your door and say "Do you want a job?"
  • Joan
    Joan
    I have had a positive attitude since graduating from college last year. I have worked a lot of years and have a lot of different experience in many fields. Unfornately, the field that I trained in, medical, is overflowing with applicants. I have applied for all different types of jobs, had interviews, phone calls and letters, all to no avail. I have tried to put the karma out there by helping other people find jobs and that doesn't work either. I've done the networking thing and nothing. I can't help but feel I've wasted my efforts and money on trying to improve myself by obtaining a college degree. Even before I finished college, I put applications out there, followed-up and nothing. I've even had a doctor laugh at me for asking for a fair wage when he asked me what salary I was looking for. I'm exhausted!
  • James Dunbar
    James Dunbar
    Obviously this person who wrote this article has lost the reality that some of us who have been out of work for over a year, and network, cold call, use all resources, get NO assistance through second career because of their discriminating NEW process for those who actually HAVE an education and WANT to improve, and does not understand that staying positive doesnt always happen while fleeing the bill seekers daily. Get Real...if those who posted jobs would at least have the decency to respond or take the time to interview someone, perhaps we could all stay a bit more positive...as it is, the negativity is a result of how we are treated while we try our best to succeed...Good luck to all of my unemployed trying colleagues.
  • lynda
    lynda
    You say to stay postive, and I have had several interviews.  Now they do the phone instead of asking to speak to you in person.  I will keep sending my resume and networking.
  • Dawn
    Dawn
    Yes a good attitude is everything. Yet it shows when you want a job hard. Try not to look too desperate. We can't make people hire us. It's just unfair. Accepting the things I can't change and making peace with the unfairness out there is all I can do.  
  • Amy Black
    Amy Black
    They say there's a nursing shortage out there, As a nurse with over 27 years of experience I have been unemployed for over 6 months now, so you couldn't prove it by me. I have completed many, many applications for many different positions and no positive results to date. I have an MBA in Human Resources as well as my BS in Nursing. Even trying to find an entry level HR position has been unsuccessful. Where do I go from here?
  • GM
    GM
    To those who say they are tired of looking and ready to quit, I say: No one is going to help you, but YOU.  There are no miracles about to land in your lap.  You have to go GET it.  You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.  Make a job search "to do" list.  On the days you don't feel like working on it, pick a couple of the easier ones, at least you will feel you have accomplished something that day. Get on Linkedin.com and WORK it. Pay it forward. Help others. Remember: karma. Be honest with yourself: what better more important thing do you have to spend your time on, than finding work?
  • Audrey Parker
    Audrey Parker
    All of this is good advice.  However, I've been searching EVERY DAY for almost two years to find a job.  I have never been unemployed this long.  After so many "no thank you's", one begins to question "why bother?"
  • William L Giddens
    William L Giddens
    Good information, insightful. We all need to realize how we come across to the interviewer even when we are not saying anything.Thanks
  • Heron Almeida
    Heron Almeida
    I have been unemployed for 7 months. I have an extensive knowledge of Export Customer Service in the Shipping Industry, I worked for the University of Toronto for 4 and a half years, I speak Portuguese(fluent),Spanish(advanced) and French (intermediate level).I have sent my resume and cover letters to numerous companies webesites, to their Human Resources, I have posted my profile in numerous companies wesites, however, I have not got many interviews and I have not found an ideal job yet. It is very frustrated .I would appreciate if you could advise me the best way to make the companies pay attention to my qualifications/experience. I am looking forward to hearing from you. RegardsHeron
  • jp
    jp
    Get real - thinking positive works only for a short period of time. Folks start to lose hope quickly in this recession

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