What is the Best Way to Handle Office Conflict?

John Krautzel
Posted by in Career Advice


Conflict in the workplace is inevitable. Managers face frustration when productivity is low, and employees deal with challenges among co-workers on a daily basis. Office conflict does not need to be a negative force that derails the company culture, however. Professionals who find strategies to cope with challenges in a positive and effective manner can motivate others and improve workforce productivity and profitability.

Office conflict can be positive when it exposes new ideas and promotes healthy competition. Innovative strategies are often discovered when professionals do not agree and are forced to compromise. Individuals who commit to actively listening to others even when they are opposed to the ideas learn how to collaborate and work as a team.

Office conflict is often minimized with clear and concise communication practices, explains Phyllis Korkki with the New York Times. Managers should establish guidelines for resolving differences in opinion in a positive manner. Employees should be given equal time to express their thoughts and ideas without interruptions or criticism from co-workers or managers. People who feel secure in communicating to others without being shut down immediately tend to work out problems and challenges in an effective and professional manner.

Employers should also establish norms for behavior when confronted with office conflict. Meetings should not be a free for all for employees to label or demoralize their co-workers. Managers must outline acceptable behavior and procedures for expressing ideas and constructive criticism. Behavioral guidelines may include waiting for a designated turn to talk, specific words and phrases that are not allowed in the workplace and actions or gestures that are prohibited. Employees should be trained on how to communicate productively and cohesively with co-workers so that they are prepared to handle challenges when they arise. Managers who provide examples of encouraging phrases and actions designed to inspire and motivate others increase the opportunity for enhanced results and less distractions caused by emotional outbreaks.

Office conflict regarding tasks and priorities can often produce heated debates. Employers should work closely with teams working on projects to help them delegate tasks, establish priorities and create a timeline to complete the work to reduce the risk of animosity among employees and groups. Managers should identify the strengths of employees and assign tasks to individuals with proficiency in the related area to increase the potential success of the team and the project itself while minimizing the risks of potential conflicts.

Workplaces are comprised of professionals with differing opinions, diverse philosophies and varied levels of work ethic. It is inevitable that disagreements occur in the workplace, but when employers and managers have practices in place to combat office conflict, employees are much more likely to resolve issues and problems independently and in a manner that promotes a positive company culture.


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  • Antonio R.
    Antonio R.

    Rules to work by!

  • Yahya O.
    Yahya O.

    We're all there to do our job so I would really pay no one any attention

  • Geralde M.
    Geralde M.

    A positive post and very helpful

  • Cade P.
    Cade P.

    Be respectful, civil, polite, and use tact .... People will listen !

  • Patrick m J.
    Patrick m J.

    Great!

  • Ellen Waltman
    Ellen Waltman

    Great advice!

  • Betty J.
    Betty J.

    Very good article

  • Nancy Anderson
    Nancy Anderson

    @Kimberly thank you for that. I couldn't have said it any better! Respect and gratitude!

  • Kimberly Odrick
    Kimberly Odrick

    It's unfortunate that this is even an issue. The way that I see it for someone that has worked in an environment in the past , and now have been displaced and disabled for far too long is that some might consider when working in such an environment, realize that there are so many personalities, and many different circumstances occurring in their lives. However, the significant thing that you all have in common , is that you are all employed, and the people that you see everyday, all day , are like family, because you see one another more than you see your own family at home. In order to make that family at home happy, you should reflect on this notion more consciously. You don't have to love one another, but you should respect and appreciate that you all have a common purpose and goal ; and more than anything be very thankful that you have a JOB.

  • Nancy Anderson
    Nancy Anderson

    @Walter thanks for that. Yes, everyone "should" be on the same page but we all know that they very seldom happens. Many folks are out for "self", as @Mary H talks about. Yes we should all learn to get along and work together because, well, what is the alternative? It is NO fun to be out in the cold looking for another position because you couldn't get along with your boss or your coworkers. If the conflict is so bad that it's affecting production, then a lot of things need to change! We are adults and should be able to come up with a compromise for conflict resolution in the workplace. Certainly no one wants to be the one that everyone points to as the bad guy on the team. So we need to sometimes take a deep breath and just walk away from a situation for a few - give ourselves time to cool off and calm down. Then we can sit down and rationally talk things out. We are all there for the same end goal - for the company to meet it's goals and objectives as well as mission statement.

  • Mary H.
    Mary H.

    Remind all of the companies "Mission" statement. The purpose each individual is here to serve for that greater goal, not for self, but fir the whole. What effect will cohesiveness and great effort to lace Self in a giving role have on peace of mind in the work place vs discord and defeat. We don't know as staff what management and aidministration are confronted with; perhaps it's the delivery if those directives to the staff that sets off a firestorm. In this economy, we must learn to get along.

  • Walter H.
    Walter H.

    Make sure everyone on same page for long-term objectives...don't overblow minor disagreements, input from everyone healthy.

  • Nancy Anderson
    Nancy Anderson

    @Glaphyra great ideas! Thanks!

  • Glaphyra Jean-Louis
    Glaphyra Jean-Louis

    Have regular meetings. Have diversity training. Have customer service training.

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